tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6274241321720477411.post6815536027714097413..comments2011-12-20T20:08:57.373-08:00Comments on The English Blog Jeff Made: Sick F***jeff vanderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11116125973425389753noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6274241321720477411.post-78578416318310327552011-12-20T20:08:57.373-08:002011-12-20T20:08:57.373-08:00Kochan's fantasies about death are very much c...Kochan's fantasies about death are very much caught up the spectacle rather than actual reality of death--for him it's a way of dealing with this desire that he shouldn't/can't have.<br /><br />Also, there are key differences between S/M and Kochan's desires--though the eroticization of pain is similar. Typically, S/M scenes take place between consenting adults with some sort of safe word or way to stop what is happening should it become too much for a participant. S/M may make people uncomfortable, but it (to me) isn't psychologically unbalanced.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07546808391292960371noreply@blogger.com